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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here--

First, thanks for all of the responses. Some really good practical ideas and other things to consider have been presented in this thread.

A few things:

1. My plan is to continue to date and not marry/move in for at least another year--likely two. I'm enjoying the freedom of my empty nest and strides I'm making in my career too much to dive head first into this. However, we both know what we want and where we're going with this.

2. I'm somewhat shocked to hear so many people say a year is too soon for him to move forward with another woman given that his in-laws have given him their blessings to do just that. Perhaps they saw how lonely he's been but his former wife's mother and brothers told him they were okay with it.[/quote]

It's lovely that the in-laws don't mind, but they're not the ones who have to live with you.  It may not be too soon for the man to move forward, but it is likely to be too soon for the children.  They have their own grief and seeing their father dating will likely be very, very difficult for them.[/quote]

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