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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your marriage sounds very typical + real to me.

Except for the infidelity part.

[b]I wouldn't stay in a marriage to someone who cheated on me. It just would kill the dynamic permanently.[/b]

Sure, there are people who stay together despite infidelity occurrences, but that still doesn't make it right.[/quote]

Have you faced that personally? If not then I will accept that you have set that standard for yourself. Most of us have set such standards, and not on just that issue, and then when faced with the reality deviated from those absolute reactions. We found that in some cases it was wrong to have done so and in others it was the absolute correct decision.

BTW...I believe there is healing in forgiveness. There is a great book with that in the title. That healing isn't just for the transgressor but also for the person harmed by the transgression. And I believe that I have to keep myself open to exercise forgiveness for others as well as myself.[/quote]

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