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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are a multitude of reasons why we pay $500+ for birthday parties for the kids. - [b]Parks [/b]are unpredictable, they can be crowded, the grounds can be [b]muddy[/b], there is a lot of setup and take down. [b]Wind, sun, sweat, bugs, dogs, dirty bathrooms[/b], etc. No. - At home is great except for the liability. We have a pool and a huge yard, we can certainly rent some yard game activity equipment. But [b]I will not want any kids to get hurt on my property.[/b] I will gladly pay for the insurance of renting someone else's facilities. Our kids are well behaved in our home, but [b]I do not want to risk breaking valuables [/b]due to a ton of kids running around. And again, the setup, take down, clean up, trash, pee on the powder room floor. No. - I want to expose my kids to the feeling of a big party/celebration. When they were young, we had small intimate family-only birthday parties. We still celebrate each of their birthdays separately in private like that, but it's important for them to not miss out on the feeling and atmosphere of large parties. After they've gone to a couple of large parties of their friends, they want to experience the same thing on their own birthdays. [/quote] You sound like a barrel of laughs. Why did you have kids?[/quote] I just don't want to be stressed out with having to do all the prep and deal with the uncertainty of having a park birthday okay? We have family cookouts and picnics so we are no strangers to doing that. But I refuse to deal with it within the context of 15-20 screaming children. The liability issue is serious. People are sue happy these days. You just never know. I am not going to take a chance on getting myself involved in a lawsuit because I want to save a few hundred dollars. It's a different world than when we were kids. [/quote]
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