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[quote=Anonymous][quote]It's not OP's fault. It's not OP's husband's fault. It's the rapist's fault. Why blame OP or her husband? [/quote] no one is blaming the husband for the rape or the initial trauma. many of us are questioning the husband's lack of support and ongoing issues. put another, if the OP had cancer, it would not be the husband's fault. But if the husband started blaming and questioning OP (what might she have done to have brought cancer on) rather than helping her heal, if the OP's husband was all about how her cancer was affecting him, I think we could agree he was an ass and that OP might be better off without him. [/quote]
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