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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I like this list of rape prevention tips:

http://canyourelate.org/2011/05/24/rape-prevention-tips/[/quote]

It's not a woman's job to live in fear. It's a man's job NOT TO RAPE WOMEN.

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Does that mean that I being a sexy woman should walk alone at night in southeast doc every night and not worry about men who look at me weird?[/quote]

Op here - ok, so I'll bite though I might regret it.  My details - I was in professional attire at a well known upscale bar in downtown DC with work colleagues when this happened.  I accepted a drink from someone we all were talking with as a group together but that I hadn't known before that evening.  We had been talking about our families and kids.  Then I blacked out and my work colleagues apparently left.  I am told I am a sexy and attractive woman - though I myself do not feel that way.  I guess I should have somehow seen this coming?[/quote]

OP, you did nothing wrong! How can your husband treat you this way? Why would you stay with a man like that and make excuses for him? I feel so bad for you. PLEASE work on your self esteem issues and realize you deserve love. This man does not love you if he could make you feel worse about getting raped. It breaks my heart. And if you are still attractive, I promise you that there are better men out there for you who will treat you with respect, love and kindness. [/quote]

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