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[quote=Anonymous]I haven't read all the answers.  As an introvert, I totally get it.  So if you go, then you need to get a different house/ apt or whatever to rent.  You cannot stay with everyone else.  Then you do a little research an find things to do with your family.  You tell everyone that you want to do a little planning ahead.  Ask them to join in the planning.  Plan some family only activities, plan some whole group activities.  My guess is that no one will want to pre-plan.  After you have planned how it works for your family, invite others to join you for some of the activities.

You do not need to do everything with 15 other people.  Let them call you bossy or stay home and don't go.  Let your husband deal with them and they can think whatever they want of you.  My guess is that if husband goes alone with your children, he will never want to do it again as he will be the one parent all the time.

Play it one way or the other, but don't feel you have to play it the way your husband wants to.  Let him know if things don't change, you will not be going on that vacation with his family. He can do it alone.  He is not taking your feelings into consideration. [/quote]

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