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[quote=Anonymous]I was raised to worship my elders and I and my husband literally put his parents wishes and desires before our own. During a quarrel with his sibling about her entitlement attitude his father let slip how much they have always hated that he married me. Because they have always practiced excellent manors neither my husband nor I saw it coming. There was no way to put the cat back in the bag and instead they chose to run with it. We had always wondered why the more we did for them the more demanding and demeaning they became. It's been 14 years since we've had any contact. They missed their first grandchild graduating from Cathedral and they will miss college grad too. If they had loved my child I would have insisted they maintain a relationship but they always favored the sibling's child because they hated me. It answered a lot of questions about their behavior. I assure you this was not my choice. My husband never knew who they were until then. Once he had his eyes opened he just couldn't stand the sight. It was frightening at first. Like cutting off a limb to save your heart. We have a fabulous relationship with our daughter and have told her that if we ever criticize her loved ones she is free to abandon us.[/quote]
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