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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am afraid to tell him because it will open the door to him truly insulting me and I don't think I can take it. [/quote]

Tell him. If he truly insults you, end the vacation and go home. [b] It's not acceptable for your spouse to treat you like that[/b], regardless of how fat you are.  Let him know that.  Do not allow him to treat you this way, which is essentially what you're doing if you don't stand up for yourself.  Sorry this is happening to you :-([/quote]

This is the answer.  this is the only answer here, but predictably enough, many of the first comments thought this topic was actually about food, or nutrition, or "calories."

It's not.

The whole  fat n' calories n' "healthy eating" thing is just noise.   Let's not have a 37 page thread with miss-the-point tips about low-cal recipes, and cute workout tops,  and "asking your DH to take long walks with you after dinner" and "hiring a sitter to watch the kids so you ...."

I'm not the OP, but I love you.

.... [i]can comply with someone else's parameters of what your body should and should not look like.[/i]

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