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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Police and principal. Do NOT contact the parents. He sexually assaulted your daughter by rubbing himself on her. I don't care if it was his backside. He even used a sexual term when he was doing it. Disgusting! [/quote]
The police -- really? Twerking is not a sexual term -- it's the term used for a very sexualized dance move -- basically a stripper move.
Call the school AND call the parents would be my move. I also would have counseled my DD to slap the crap out of that boy the next time he attempted to do that to her. Have to teach folks how to treat you -- let them know that you are not an easy mark. Sometimes things do not take a yearlong intervention and the involvement of every social agency and psyhotropic drug known to modern medicine. Sometimes it just takes an old school kick in the arse![/quote]

It is body contact. It is rubbing. It is sexual. It was done against her will, so it is sexual assault. So is kissing ok, since its only kissing? No, if he had kissed her against her will, it would be sexual assault. He rubbed his private area (yes, his butt) on her to intimidate her. To hold power over her. And now, you are encouraging the OP to teach her child to respond violently so that the police will be called on her and she'll  have the police record?? Naw, this needs to be dealt with in a way that will stop this future rapist in his tracks![/quote] 
yes, i do teach my girl child that if someone is continually putting their hands on her, that she has a right to defend herself. There will not always be a parent, teacher, school psychologist around. No, my child does not have to take abuse until there is an adult around to tell. In the moment, she is allowed to physcially defend her person. And next time, that little boy will know who he is dealing with and just may think twice before he decides to put his hand or his behind on my child. [/quote]

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