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[quote=Anonymous]You cannot change the family dynamic. It was established before you and your presence as an outsider only reinforces the MIL. The only single thing you and your husband can do is let go. The MIL and daughter are involved in establishing control over the inferiors in the family. This is the only way they can be superior is by self selection. By displaying wants and needs that they can refuse, you give them power. Just let go. Stop wanting. Stop needing. They are incapable of giving. Once you can step back and view them dispassionately, you will see all the maneuvering they engage in to make sure you know your place is beneath them. They will never change, but they will miss you licking their feet. [/quote]
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