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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Holy shit, if my kid said that her entire world would stop. "How would you feel if all the kids with the coolest toys wouldn't let you play because you're white? We are all the same on the inside. We all bleed red blood. Our own president is black. You really wouldn't play with his daughters because they have dark skin?"

I would make it VERY clear RIGHT AWAY that we don't treat people poorly or ignore them because of how they are born! [/quote]

If you do this to a 3.5 year old, the kid will stop sharing his weird thoughts but won't stop having them. If your goal is to raise a loving, reasonable person who can see that skin color is not relevant to a person's worth, you won't freak out on the kid. That's the worst thing you can do.

Oh, and to the hate speech poster. Get a grip.  Preschoolers sometimes say they don't like any kid who is a boy or who is a girl. That doesn't make them inherent sexists.  This kid has friends and role models who aren't white. He's not about to launch a hate campaign. He's apparently heard an adult or an older child say something terrible and he's trying to figure it out. He does want to know how his parents will react to his statements but screaming at him won't help. My white kindergartener, and many other young children, is so confused by the idea that anyone ever would or ever has treated people differently based on their skin that he keeps trying to figure out why. It makes no sense to him because it is nonsensical. The OP's young child isn't evil. [/quote]
OMG --  You are plain wrong, mislead, misinformed, and just not that bright. You actually believe that you do not tell a child how to treat other people and then back it up by demonstrating that yourself? ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME?!!!!!!!!!
No one said anything about screaming at a child -- but you say it every seriously -- to convey the importance of it.
Geez![/quote]

Okay, now you are either just pretending not to understand or you don't want to understand because you like feeling superior. No one is saying don't tell the child that people are equal and that we treat them equally. [/quote]
You cannot read![/quote]

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