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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you feel pretty strongly about it. I think rather than trying to find a way to do it behind your wife's back I would work on getting your wife on board with the idea. Slowly, letting her ask whatever she needs to ask and then sitting with it, etc. I think that's the only way for this to work. [/quote]

I feel a very strong obligation to help my friend. I also don't want to irretrievably destroy my marriage. I am conflicted.[/quote]

Why does it have to be YOUR sperm? You are talking about this like you are her only option. As others have mentioned, there are sperm banks. There is adoption. I'm guessing if she is so awesome she probably has other male friends, some of whom may not have spouses who might object. There are also childless people who live completely fulfilling lives. I'm not saying your friend shouldn't be a parent, but to put ALL the onus on you for her (whether that's her implying it, or you for believing it) becoming one is ridiculous. It's not like she needs a kidney to live and you are the only matching donor available. [/quote]

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