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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm with you. But I feel like I can't split up until I try everything possible to bring it back. I'm a child of divorce, and it has damaged me. I can't do that to my kids. I'll fake it for a lifetime if need be. If there's no abuse or dishonesty or serious wrongdoing, you have to keep trying. Counseling, books, couples retreats, date nights, finding a hobby together, anything. Don't just check out. [/quote]

OP:  no physical abuse, but occasional verbal abuse from both sides, behind many-many closed doors and out of the kids' earshot.  I hate our date nights, I'm tired of acting like I truly enjoy him being by my side.  I dread weekends because I don't want to go places with him.  Generally, I try to avoid him as much as possible.  As far as hobbies - we simply don't have much in common.  He's not into fitness, I am not into garage bands. [/quote]

You want a divorce just because he likes to be reassured and has some self doubt?  It must be more than that.  Nobody could want a divorce for such a small reason.  You say "I don't want to go places with him".  Is that because somehow he embarrasses you?  Or the places he likes to go are boring?  I don't know... this is just too strange to be real.  Surely there must be more to it than this?[/quote]

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