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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This post really highlights the reasons that victims of sexual assault don't come forward or pursue legal action more often.

Physiological reaction and physiological reaction are totally different things. Both male and female victims can and may experience erection, lubrication, and orgasm during rape, even violent and brutal rapes. It DOES NOT mean they "liked it" or "wanted it". It means that physiologically, their equipment is working. That's it.

This guy, by his own account, was too drunk to consent. The woman could have gotten him to achieve erection by rubbing or stroking him while he was passed out. Guess what - penises love that kind of attention. Again - physiological reaction, not psychological.

He also doesn't specify what kind of sex they had. If you don't think that a woman can sodomize a man, you need to spend more time on the explicit forum. Do you really think a man would tell people if he was coerced into anal sex by a woman half his size? Even if he had been consenting to it in the past,  he could not consent given his intoxicated state.

Just because things "don't make sense" don't mean that they aren't true, or don't matter. A lot of assailants are the folks no one would suspect.

If is guy believes he was assaulted, he can access mental health care like ANY assault victim, male or female, and should be encouraged to do so. Males often have a lot of PTSD after assaults simply due to the fact that they have always felt "in power".

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Am I the only one here who needs to stretch her imagination to envision your scenario? 
I think even the most empathetic  judge would have to chuckle at such an occurrence. [/quote]

Thanks for proving my point. It's attitudes like this that perpetuates "rape culture" for both genders.

And also, thanks for not being a judge or anyone needing to uphold the law without bias. [/quote]
Exactly how many men do you know who were raped by women?[/quote]

What do you think the answer would have been 50 years ago if you'd polled men about how many women they knew who'd been raped?[/quote]

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