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Reply to "I love him but the sex isn't great"
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[quote=Anonymous]No, that is not my point at all. Saying your partner is no good at (fill in the blank) just puts the onus for your satisfaction on the other party. Fulfilling sex is a huge part of a lasting relationship. My point is for OP to try a different way of thinking about the problem. That may leave to different behaviors and outcomes. If she (or in many scenarios, it could be the guy) can't or won't try that, then the attitude over time will become cruel. I believe that is unfair. The attitude, "I will do what it takes..." Leaves a lot of room for possibility. If the attitude is "he's a great guy, but he'll neverake my toes curl" then the possible outcomes are narrow. The relationship will fold or two people will be trapped in a situation that could become miserable. [/quote]
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