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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Honestly, if you've ever had a SN child, you realize that having one in and of itself makes you want to have a larger family because of the lifelong support siblings can provide to each other. We have cousins with a true, lifelong SN child and her only sibling shoulders a tremendous burden and I know, because she's told me, she wishes her family had more children. [/quote] The idea of creating more children to "share the burden" is a little suspect from a moral point of view. We considered very carefully whether or not to have a second for this very reason. Moreover, in this case if the third child turned out to have special needs - which is also possible - would you not be doubling the "burden" by this logic?[/quote]
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