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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like you're really conflicted. Honestly, I recommend that you don't cut off all ties and break complete contact, but you never, ever leave your daughter alone with your dad. If you're not watching her when everyone is visiting, watch him. If he leaves the room (and she's not in your eyesight) follow him and see where he goes. It's a lot of work, but something I think you have to do. Also, teach your daughter to not be alone with "grandpa." Tell her that you don't want her going anywhere with him and teach her to say "no" to him. If you feel you can't confront him, say, "mom, dad, it's something I strongly believe. In my gut I don't want her XYZ (sleeping over, going to the store with you, going for a walk...whatever)" If he has pedophilia tendencies, he'll get it and not push (especially since your elbow stopped him before, he may not be aggressive about it).[/quote] This is also my advice[/quote]
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