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[b]My husband flunked the question at our premarital counseling:  You are in the plane with your fiancee and mother, there are 2 parachutes and the plane is going down?  Who gets the 2 parachutes?
In Christianity, the answer is the fiance and fiancee.  My husband was/is not Christian. He said his mother and me, the fiancee. Who knows what she would have answered...!....[/b]

In my husband's case he was naive and immature. But got better once married and then had to have a big money talk with his parents once we had kids too (he was overbuying them things and they were trained to have us pay for everything when they visited us or we visited them). He literally had to tell his father that we have big expenses in our young lives and his banker bachelor days of treating Mommy and Daddy to everything are over.  So he got better and it clicked. He was not so buddy buddy with his mother as in your case.... He is too private of a person in general. [/quote]

Personally I don't think that is failing the question.  He wanted to save the people who matter to him.  That does not put his mother above you, but he loves her too.[/quote]

In like 25 years, he will look back and the answer would be "I should have taken both chutes for myself"
J/K

That's a stupid on-the-spot idiotic question that proves nothing anyway[/quote]

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