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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. Thanks for the advice. He is a good person he just has some anger and anxiety issues that he says the pot helps with. I really can't just throw away 10 years. We've been through so much. [b]I stayed with him through jail time and cheating[/b]. I think we are stronger for it but obviously there will always be trust issues. I just know he's capable of doing so much more with his life and if he were able to get a good night's sleep maybe he'd be able to focus better during the day. I guess right now the thing that's getting on my nerves the most is the food issue because it affects my day when I'm trying to get ready for work, etc. He was recently referred to a psychiatrist but would rather just try and get sleeping pills from the regular doctor rather than talk to a shrink. And I don't think he's bulimic because he's loud when he throws up, he just has a really fast metabolism. [/quote]

Ok now you have revealed your trollish self.  [/quote]

Definitely not a troll, he was just younger and really stupid but I stuck with him and we are doing better now. That was the downside to being in a committed relationship with someone from a young age I suppose, I had to be there for all his f-ck ups instead of his mom or grandma. We all did stupid stuff when we were younger, [b]he was just unlucky and got caught[/b]. My point in mentioning it is we have a lot of history and have been through some bad times but always make it out to the other side. [/quote]

The bolded part is an interesting comment and probably says a lot about you. You seem to recognize that he's a loser (my term) but you also seem inclined to deflect any responsibility for that away from him.

If this is a serious post (I'm starting to have my doubts) then you need to forget the husband and take a good long look at yourself and figure out why you'd want to remain is what is obviously a terrible relationship with zero upside. At this point your inevitable unhappiness will be your own fault. Time to grow up.[/quote]

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