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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorce is a more honest, respectful solution than cheating and blaming your spouse for it. [/quote]

PP here.  Respectfully disagree that divorce is the better way in all occasions.  I also have an AP and our relationship allows sanity for me without getting divorced.  [/quote]

Your spouse deserved to make the decision for him or herself about whether they want to be married to someone who is sexually involved with someone else. Does your spouse know that you are having an affair? If not, you are taking away from your spouse the decision about whether or not he or she want to remain married to you and essentially deciding that your way is what is best for everyone.

If your spouse knows that you have an extramarital relationship and has decided that that's not a problem for them, it's a completely different story. [/quote]

Agree.  It takes away the vote of the spouse who isn't cheating - note i didn't say blameless.  Not getting your needs met?  You have a right to ask.  you have a right to leave.  You do not have a right to mislead your spouse.  you do not have a right to withhold full disclosure.  your spouse has a right to choose if they want to stay in a relationship where you've checked out and are investing your emotions in someone else.  That's dirty, and it unnecessarily adds so much pain.  [/quote]

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