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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a DW and in my long marriage, we have been in situations of drastic uneven libidos (both sides) at times.  However, I believe that the needs of the higher libido spouse trumps that of the non-sexual spouse, at any given period, in a marriage.  Why? Because I consider sex a basic need of human beings.  I would rather fulfill my spouse's need for sex than let him go without, and vice versa.

For me it is an act of caring and love. The same as wiping the drool off your spouse's chin when you are aged and old.

At the very least you need to be able to have frank discussions about it.  This is as much a marital issue that needs to be solved TOGETHER, as figuring out your budget, or kid's schooling option. Seriously.

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I completely and totally disagree with this. What you are saying is basically that people should have sex, even if they don't want to, because they owe it to someone to have sex. It's not at all the same as wiping away drool when you're old. If you are okay with having sex when you don't want to in order to keep your husband happy, that's great for you, but please do not assume that all of us would be okay with that situation. I know that I would absolutely not be.[/quote]

So what should your spouse do with his or her unmet sexual needs?[/quote]

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