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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ah the quintessential man-child. He needs to mature a bit more before he's ready for a relationship. Think cheez-it's commercials. At this rate your role would be to replace or work along side mommy. Trust me you do not want this. [/quote]

OP here. His mom is also texting him all the time and grills him about every little detail or decision in his life. He doesn't even seem to realize this isn't a problem...[/quote]

This is just stupid. 
As much as I wish I could say "Look at how well he treats his Momma and that is how he will treat you" there is more of a leaning towards her always being 1st, never growing up and putting his wife/kids 1st, etc.   Just let this one fizzle, I can't even think of a way to bring it up to him. Prob wouldn't go over well if he "doesnt get it".

My husband flunked the question at our premarital counseling:  You are in the plane with your fiancee and mother, there are 2 parachutes and the plane is going down?  Who gets the 2 parachutes?
In Christianity, the answer is the fiance and fiancee.  My husband was/is not Christian. He said his mother and me, the fiancee. Who knows what she would have answered...!....

In my husband's case he was naive and immature. But got better once married and then had to have a big money talk with his parents once we had kids too (he was overbuying them things and they were trained to have us pay for everything when they visited us or we visited them). He literally had to tell his father that we have big expenses in our young lives and his banker bachelor days of treating Mommy and Daddy to everything are over.  So he got better and it clicked. He was not so buddy buddy with his mother as in your case.... He is too private of a person in general. [/quote]

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