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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, many many thanks to you all, much wisdom here. I think it boils down to feeling not strong, I didn't feel strong in the marriage and I don't now. [/quote] Well, this is the real issue: get to a place where you feel good about yourself as an individual, regardless of your relationships to other people - do not ground your self-worth in your relationships with parents, friends, lovers...yes, those contribute, but they cannot be responsible for your self-worth or self-esteem. When you have a good relationship with yourself, you will find it easier to have a good relationship with others (and you won't give a damn what your ex-husband is up to).[/quote]
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