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Why would he want to stay married to you if you don't feel sex is a natural part of a marriage? I won't even bother saying what you sound like. The point isn't for someone to force themselves on their spouses, but rather for the spouse to find a way to become interested. Sex is a healthy, natural part of a marriage. It's a reasonable expectation. If you're unwilling to meet the basic needs of your partner, why shouldn't they be able to find someone else who will? And before you start talking about how cheating is breaking your vows, as far as I'm concerned so is withholding sex. Not to mention some major bait and switch if you weren't always this frigid. 
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If you don't want to have sex with your spouse, you need to figure out what the issue is and resolve it. [/b]

I probably don't sound like I'm a real prince either. I'm the dw, dealing with a DH who went through a phase where he was uninterested in sex. Our marriage suffered for it and he realizes now how much better things are when our physical (sexual) needs are met. [/quote]
I have to figure that out? I do?

Here's the issue. I need foreplay. Lots of it. I prefer to climax through oral sex, will settle for manual in  a pinch.  My DH won't engage in any of it, won't learn, won't follow my lead. Just stopped trying.   How do you propose I resolve this, other than masturbating alone and feeling angry?[/quote]

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