Reply to Avoiding duty sex?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Avoiding duty sex?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife like massages. I make certain that every time she asks for a massage, I give her one. It doesn't matter if my muscles or sore or my hands hurt. She's asking me to show affection and I do my best for her. I like sex and sometimes she blows me or (Yeah!) she uses her hands. I know that it is isn't always that interested but she generally makes an effort. That few minutes goes a long way toward keeping our marriage happy. [/quote]

Hah. I wish my husband understood this concept. He thinks I am a cold fish and hate sex. I have never been able to get him to understand that I need stuff like this before just jumping into intercourse. And sometimes I just want the massage like he just wants the BJ. And by "never been able to make him understand" I mean actually directly telling him hasn't worked.   Half hearted attempts for 2 minutes Accompanied by pissy moans and sighs because he doesn't want to do = not worth it = duty sex. [/quote]

Sorry for you PP.  It's amazing how dense and self centered some people can be.  It's simple reciprocation... but some people would rather put in no effort and then moan about it. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics