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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. So this is my day 2 on Match and I am surprised I am getting tons of messages and winks from men whose profiles indicate they do not want to date women with kids... Hmmm! This is really confusing. Of course, I instantly think they just want sex and I am not interested in just getting laid. Dating websites are not necessary for that, right? Anyway, I answered only one guy so far. What is up with winking? I do not even want to see who winked at me as I think it's so childish... I am so new to this and honestly, am nervous about going out with strangers. I guess I will get used to it. Parenthood has definitely made me paranoid and uptight. I am afraid men will sense that. [/quote] Take a deep breath, maybe 2. it's a marathon, not a sprint. You WILL be inundated with winks, messages and so on from tons of men. Just like in real life, there are creeps out there who are using online dating as just another medium through which to try to score with women. Ignore them and don't let it affect you/ Take your time. Honestly, it sounds like you may not be entirely ready to date - so just take it slow and move at whatever pace you feel comfortable doing. Only respond to men whose profiles connect with you. And as you're only on day 2, take it slow.[/quote]
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