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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP again, I am back. Initially I was ready to move out, but then I gathered my strength to talk to H once more, and told him I thought he wasn't being fair to me, and the child should stay put. 
I told him he needed to either pay for separate housing if he loathes living with us, or he needs to suck it up and live with us until the GC goes through.
Now he is pissed, really pissed that I don't want to do as he wanted. 
I would appreciate if someone could try to give me the worst case scenarios here...what can he do? He told me he wouldn't give me any more spending money. 
What else can he do?
I am inclined to file for separation and/or divorce, because I don't think he will agree on the green card for me, either way... but at least I get a decent amount of money from him. 
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He can't do anything.  You two are at a stand still and since he is the one with he money, he needs to be the one to move out. It's what the courts would order anyway given it's a single earner household and the legal reasons why you cannot work.

Whatever you do, stay put. If he gets frustrated enough, he will leave.  In the meantime, dont do anything stupid- no threatening him, no angry text messages, no angry emails.  Start trying to save/hide money.  Start making a list of all the assets in the house- that will come in handy when/if you do get a divorce, in terms of making sure you get a fair distribution of the assets.

Good luck!  Glad to hear you gathered your strength and stayed!!! [/quote]

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