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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He was wrong for lying. That said, I wonder if he didn't tell you because he knew you're not the type of person who would be receptive to it. [/quote]

That's still self serving.  The message is:  husband hides behavior to avoid input from wife because possibly she's not "receptive."  Instead of acting like adults discussing possible different points of view, he sneaks around because she can't handle it.  Really?  He's in graduate school?  That makes him sound like a teenager.  It's the opposite of being an adult and taking responsibility for your choices, character, and actions.  And it blames the spouse for his lies.[/quote]

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This is not her fault.  This is on him, and not being a partner and getting a buy in from his spouse for going out once a week.  If he's "scared" of talking to her, then he needs to man-up and have THAT conversation and maybe get some counseling to improve their communication.  He sounds like an immature baby-man who doesn't feel like dealing with his grown up life.[/quote]

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