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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was DW in this exact situation, but the evidence was email to a friend, not an overhead call.

He confronted me and it was like waking up. He was angry, but also clearly sad and scared. I saw that, and I instantly realized how ridiculous I was being and what I was risking for a stupid fantasy.

His courage in sitting me down and talking saved me and probably us.

Talk to her.[/quote]

OP, this is the best advice to follow. This isn't about sex (and I'm a guy saying that). It's about trusting that your wife loves you and is committed to you. What you heard is confidence smashing. Tell her what you heard, tell her much your hurting, and let her respond.

I've been through a similar situation. Except my DW's infatuation is with a celebrity over whom she "anonymously" blogs, posting her fantasies for the world to see. I wish now that I would have had the courage to just say, "I found what you're doing and it makes me feel like your second choice. This really hurts me."  I tried the non-chalant approach and it only led to bigger tension when I  finally let Her know that I knew what she was up to.

Good luck!  State your feelings and be brave. I wish you the best. [/quote]

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