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Reply to "How long did it take for you/your spouse to feel balance/normal after an extra marital affair?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I was the one who had an A, and we are over five years out from d-day (I confessed). We had no kids or assets on d-day, but had been together for over 10 years. We both made the choice to try to reconcile. I worked my ass off on me and my issues. My H worked on issues he had. And we both worked on our relationship. Our marriage is not the same as it was. I caused him horrible pain, and I wish that I could take that back. But I cannot. Yet together we have moved forward and created a much healthier marriage. In terms of going back to "normal," I don't think that ever happens. The old relationship is dead. If one chooses to create a new relationship, it can be done. It's not easy though, and not for everyone. For many it is a dealbreaker.[/quote]
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