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[quote=Anonymous]He sounds like he's depressed or bipolar and using video games/role playing to avoid reality.  I would tell him that you cannot continue paying the bills and if he cannot pay February rent he needs to move out so that you can find a roommate who can pay.  I agree with PPs that you should not be paying for his phone, cable, or anything else.  Don't worry about any bills in his name (even electricity) - let him figure it out.  Best case scenario he borrows from relatives for February and gets a job to pay his share or moves out.  Worst case scenario, he refuses, in which case you probably do need to break the lease and figure out if you can stay with someone for a while to save for a new place.

Whatever happens, once July comes around you need to get away from this guy.  By the way, he was probably successful in high school due to his parents structure and support.  It is not uncommon for people with ADHD to struggle in early adulthood once that structure is gone - he is looking to you to fill in the role his parents once played.[/quote]

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