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[quote=Anonymous]OP, two questions for you. Why did your marriage hit a rough patch? I'm not being snarky, I have two kids, and I really want to know. I "get" having a rough patch after the first as it's such a game changer, but not after the second since by that point, you and your husband are already parents. So, what happened? Can you do anything to prevent a rough patch? A good attitude and regular sex may be all it takes. Second, do you want a third baby so that your husband will be around more? I'm wondering if he works a lot to escape something. I'd stop using birth contrl and tell him he needs to get the snip. Not fair at all for him to use your body for pleasure while failing to take ownership of his views on more children Also, realize that you aren't "pestering" your husband. You're not a kid begging dad to take you to the pool while he's waiting for the plumber to show up. You are an adult woman. Act like one. The fact that you view yourself as pestering is a huge deal at least to me. As for "finances" people always have money for what they want. Get to the bottom of the issues. "finances" are often used as a catch-all to not do something. He is well within his rights to say and then take action about not wanting a third, he is not free to make you feel bad for wanting what you do. [/quote]

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