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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Talk to him, OP.  Maybe he'll convince you to get a puppy instead, but at least he'll know that this is still a want of yours and weighs heavily on your mind. Good luck, I've heard many stories of parents who regretted stopping when they did, but [b]I've never heard stories of parents regretting that they had too many[/b]. And my second was colicky, oh Lord it was pure hell. Our third was totally easy, so don't let your DH be too traumatized, there is hope![/quote]

I have.[/quote]

+1 So have I.  Twice from women who had their third after 35 and the baby had special needs/health issues.  They love their children, of course, but it puts a huge burden on the entire family and changes everything.  [/quote]

You don't have to be over 35 to have SN children. The poster(s) who constantly make snide and vicious remarks about older mothers make me sick. [/quote]

+1. I had mine at 30.  My DH has been involved 100% and we both made the decision to stop at two. We knew we had our hands full and no family in the area to help out. There was also college and retirement to save for, in addition to any unforeseen needs.  Now we are in our early 50's with one almost launched and starting to plan for independent living for our SN twenty year-old. We still have our hands full but now we get to travel a bit and have time for socializing/hobbies.  Do not discount your spouse's wishes.  Cherish and protect the happy family you have. [/quote]

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