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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Talk to him, OP.  Maybe he'll convince you to get a puppy instead, but at least he'll know that this is still a want of yours and weighs heavily on your mind. Good luck, I've heard many stories of parents who regretted stopping when they did, but [b]I've never heard stories of parents regretting that they had too many[/b]. And my second was colicky, oh Lord it was pure hell. Our third was totally easy, so don't let your DH be too traumatized, there is hope![/quote]

I have.[/quote]

+1 So have I.  Twice from women who had their third after 35 and the baby had special needs/health issues.  They love their children, of course, but it puts a huge burden on the entire family and changes everything.  [/quote]

I agree.  I have heard of this also.  You're gambling each time you have a baby, especially the older you guys are.  I mean, if you had never had one, that's different, but you have two healthy children.  You are already fortunate for that!  Realize you should be grateful for that and let it be.  Go to counseling.  If he works a lot, you are likely trying to fill the void by continuing to have children.  Another reason is you may not have your own identity outside of being a mother.  [/quote]

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