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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you people ever lived with someone with a chronic illness? Do you know how angry and mean they can be? Those with chronic illness take their anger and frustration out on the person closest to them...their spouse. Do you know what it's like to be critisized and screamed at, while still being expected to care for them, clean, cook, shop and work full-time? You get no support, sex or intimacy. It's miserable. Don't judge. You truly have no idea.[/quote] At an airport a few years ago, I saw an older man in a wheelchair yelling obscenities at his wife while she was trying to patiently assist him. If I were in her shoes, I would have left him muttering to himself until he could be civil. You can't say what you would do until you are in that position. If my spouse became abusive, I would continue to support them in every other way but I would not let myself be abused in my own home. [/quote]
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