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Reply to "DH sobered up, I'm contemplating an EA, advice?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I have recently enjoyed some lovely vacation time with kids, no husband. Our marriage has been seriously strained the past year due to unemployment and addiction. he has been sober for 3 months. rebuilding the trust and intimacy is very hard. we have not had sex since I learned he was lying again about drinking. I have forgiven him. He is trying very hard. But the intimacy and trust will take longer to rebuild. In the meantime, I do lots of things to make myself feel better. And one of them is time with the kids without him. It gives me peace and control. My kids are elementary school age, so not super demanding anymore. I have not considered a EA, but have thought about divorce in a few years or 10 years if we can't improve the marriage. I am in it now, to make things better, but also know that addiction has very high relapse, so not sure if I am in it forever.[/quote]
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