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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Uhhh no. Seriously, you cant walk around playing a sad violin tune your entire life. The whole world, including your children, dont need to know that you were raped. Not sure what you think this information will do for them. To the person saying why lie, its not lying. I know no one that tells their children everything, like when they tried drugs, when you had a threesome, when you went skinny dipping, etc. [/quote] Educate them that what they think they know about victims may not be true. Teach them empathy for a victim. Give them one example of how something like that could happen. Tell them not to victim blame. You don't seem to know much about victims. I hope that by talking to my kids I could teach them to have more understanding that you do. Talking about a rape isn't a "poor me" pity party. It's a thing that happened to me. It was bad. I got through it. It's just part of my history. It's not something I dwell on. It's not something I think I should be ashamed of, either. [/quote] +1000 You are awesome. I'm glad you are raising kids. :)[/quote]
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