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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't split 50/50 of an infant. If you are breastfeeding he won't get more than a few hours at a stretch.[/quote]

[b]You pump, but either way, it is your house too.  [/b]In less you leave and take the baby (before either one of you files custody as then you can legally do it), I would move into another room or the baby room and stay.[/quote]

You cannot force someone to pump. [/quote]

Then baby gets formula.  There are options.  Breastfeeding is not a reason to withhold parenting time even if he is being a jerk to mom. [/quote]

Um, no, you're wrong.  In my old state I had more than one friend who was able to put off overnight visits until child was fully weaned, or up to age three.  No way I'd give my baby formula[/quote]

Why did you have so many friends who had split with the dad while the kid was young enough to breastfeed?[/quote]

It may not apply to Op if dad does not want to be involved but this attitude where dad cannot have visitation or be alone with the child over random excuses like breastfeeding, when one can pump, is why many of the dads give up and go away.  It is very clear moms only want them as a child support check and not as an equal parent.  By three, a child with limited visits with a child has not been able to bond to their parent, then the next set of excuses come such as the child is scared of overnights, not bonded to the father, etc.

To the no visit poster...and you wonder why these women are single and struggling.  Or, better yet, the dads get tired of their nonsense and move on. [/quote]

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