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[quote=Anonymous]Whatever you decide about having the baby, OP, set a deadline for your husband to make progress with his issues. I have been in your position, and I decided to have the baby. The one thing I regret is that I didn't make a clear deadline and ultimatum regarding acceptable behavior and progress in therapy at the time, and then just get out early, rather than let things drag on for years of damage. Get your finances in order, get more of a support network in place, and look into what will happen with custody if/when you split up. You have to consider the effects either way on your child/children, of being left alone in custody of your husband. And whatever you do, because you already have a child, it's in their interest that you work with your husband, whether you intend to split or not, to see that his pdoc has him on the correct meds, and that he does continue to get therapy and anger management training. You're in a tough spot. Wish you well.[/quote]
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