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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]The only problem here is the stranger part because most kids who are harmed are harmed by people they know.[/b] Thats why I never used the word stranger with my kids. Its the guy they see around the neighborhood or the uncle who visits kids across the street or, yes, the mom they've seen around who knows their parents.

[b]Stranger danger is a tag phrase. Its not personal.[/b] Its almost like a mnemonic. Like the kids were tempted to go with you but reminded themselves of the rules by saying that out loud. They probably also assumed you would understand.

[b]If I were you I would contact the mom to let her know her kids did well in this situation.[/quote]
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Then maybe ask the other mom what she'd like in the future, and offer to exchange contact info[/b]?[/quote]

OP, you need to sit down with a cup of chamomile tea (or vodka, whatever is your fancy), take a deep, cleansing breath and just chill.

You're offended at CHILDREN. Children who used an incredibly brave amount of judgement to keep themselves safer they just have been cold and miserable too, and I'm sure that your warm car seemed like a haven, but they did the RIGHT thing. You are, ultimately, a stranger to them. Seeing someone every day at the bus stop is not the same as putting your life under their control. The same barista has made my coffee for me for years. I know a fair amount about him and his life... But that doesn't mean I feel safe heading to his apartment alone tonight at midnight for drinks.

These kids should be praised, and I agree with PP that said you should call the mom and let her know what went on. Apologize for putting her children in an uncomfortable spot. Maybe trade info so she can make the decision if you are not a stranger to her children. Is not, nor should it be, up to a 10 year old to make that call. [/quote]

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