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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not at ALL.  I texted him telling him the reasons I left and then I called him.  He was asleep.  I asked if he had anything to say to me and he said "I'm sorry I blew up at you."  I said I cannot stand being treated this way and that I was going to go to the marriott and fly out tomorrow.  In retrospect I should not have mentioned flying out bc if I don't go it shows I just have empty responses to his bad actions.  If for nothing else, for this reason staying at marriott tonight seems like a must-do. [/quote]

I'm so sorry OP,  I know how you feel.  I think we are married to the same man.  My H is exactly like this.  I think he is a sociopath, or at the very least a borderline personality.  He has no empathy at all, and it sounds like your DH is very similar. [/quote]

I will add that my H and I had a similar issue.  We had an elderly dog that could no longer get down our stairs to get to the backyard to do her business.  He also expected me to carry her down 2 flights of stairs during my pregnancy....when I was leary of trying to get down the stairs even without worrying about carrying a 40 pound dog down with me.  When I got to about 8 months, I just told him I refused to do it anymore and let her just pee and poop in the house until he started doing it.  We put her down shortly afterward (which I was okay with, it was time IMO).  He has been a total shithead with the new baby also, refusing to help at all, then calling me lazy and a terrible mom.  I'm currently saving up money on the side for a divorce attorney.  Men/people like this don't change.  [/quote]

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