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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look at Gunderson Residence at Mclean Hospital near Boston. And be very aware that your parents will not live forever, and if your sibling is dependent on them for emotional support or financial support, have a plan in place for when she is "abandoned" by them when they pass away. Those will be very rough times.[/quote] OP here. I missed your post. . .can you expand on this? She has extreme relationships with our parents - flying into action as their protector/defender one minute, loathing them as unsupportive and hateful the next. My father is not in the best of health and I know that when he does pass it will be ugly, particularly since I'm not close with him and I will not have the devastated reaction she will expect is "proper." The idea that his death will be an abandonment for her is a big one - especially since it will be for the second (multiple?) time. [/quote]
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