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[quote=Anonymous]OP here it basically said it was the best lunch ever and he could kiss her for hours and not just a peck and that he is really hoping to see her again.   Said that he was very hot for her and that she was a knockout and that he hoped she was "moist" too.   Said something about bringing vibrating panties next time.    Said he wants to get together for fun but doesn't have to be actual sex?  Overall was tough text to receive as I was helping kids with school stuff.  My sense it was all in a public place and he left wanting more.

I am not contacting anyone except I have appointment with my therapist I used to see on Friday, I am focusing on what I want and what will be good for me and for kids.   There are past issues (not cheating but serious) and this is the last straw for me.

He texted me today saying that he knows he hurt me, knows he is wrong but that there are things I have done that made him lost trust and that he wants to go to a counselor.   I am feeling pretty done and don't have any desire to hash out further when I really think my future is better without him.   The things he keeps bringing up are again the sex issue and also that I have been paying or my sisters and my nephews cell phones for the last few years because she is really broke and I want to help her, I added two lines to my cell account.  I also pay for his mom's phone btw.  This is all small amounts of $ compared to the thousands he threw away away gambling in 2 trips to Vegas that I did not approve of.

The sex is up and down.  When its good its really good.   He is really good in bed and very giving.  However, no matter how often it is whether is weekly, twice week or more...its never enough, if its 20 minutes he wants long drawn out affair every time, if I wear nice lingerie he wants stripper shoes and a vibrator and wants to watch porn on top of all that.  I'm open to that and we have watched in past but I don't want my sex life to resume a porno.  He has talked about adding more excitement and passion but I am really happy with how things are.   I want to feel like *I* am enough.   I am in good shape and dress nice and take care of self.   I am good at my job and make great money, and I am good mom.  I know I deserve alot more and I am to the point that I'd really rather be alone than deal with his constant issues.  I am waiting to discuss this with him until we have a time without kids and also not at home where things can escalate.

Thanks folks for sharing your stories, I know this is a common issue helps to realize that.   [/quote]

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