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[quote=Anonymous][quote]OP here. So I am the bad guy? This is just really stressful. We've tried so hard to come up with a better schedule but it doesn't work for anyone. I just really thought spending Christmas Eve and Christmas with his family and then traveling back and hosting a Christmas for my parents was a great compromise. I just wish we could see them all at once. I have tried putting my foot down and offering to host, but neither will come at the same time. [/quote] You're trying too hard to please your ILs. It's about time you and your DH establish your own holiday traditions. If that includes spending time with family of origin some years and some years not, well, that's what happens when children become adults. Your proposal was excellent. If that isn't acceptable, take two cars.[/quote]
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