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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not that PP. But seriously, move on OP. People told you it was normal, you don't think it is, and that's your personal paradigm. So you either suck it up or learn to think it's normal. Or break up with your boyfriend and go be somebody else's "first string" since you said yourself you feel second string. [/quote]

You have no reading comprehension, because it's been stated several times that no, I don't feel like his second string. I also said I felt it was different and didn't now if it was normal because I've never been in this situation, and I'm seeing now that it's not uncommon, and thanked those people who shared their experiences. Reading EVERYTHING and not cherry picking segments to bolster your argument would be helpful to contributing to this discussion.

And for not being the same PP, you share the same writing style and language.[/quote]

Not the PP to whom you respond, but don't get why you are now so insistent that you don't feel second string since that was exactly how you framed your original question OP:

"Do I just have to deal with being his "2nd string" relationship forever? "

Focusing on your original question isn't "cherry picking".  Most readers probably think what you said initially is most reflective of your gut feelings and that any backpedaling you've done in subsequent posts is the kind of insincere self-rationalization that many women do to maintain relationships that really aren't a good fit for them (i.e., he didn't call.... I'm not upset he didn't call, he's a busy guy....)[/quote]

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