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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] In what way is this burden diminished by telling the kids?[/quote] Because the kids may blame the cheated-on person for the divorce, because they don't know the whole story. So keeping the cheating a secret can damage the cheated-on person's relationship with their children.[/quote] I still think this is a wrong path. For all you know, kids don't view adultery the way you do. They may very well say, so what, couldn't you just forgive him/her?[/quote] Look, it's just unreasonable to cheat on someone and then ask you to lie on their behalf for the rest of their life. Why would you deserve that kind of consideration, after you treated them badly? The kids question is neither here nor there-- some kids would prefer to know, others not. [/quote]
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