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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hot guy being aggressive = hell yes
Ugly guy being aggressive = rapist[/quote]

I think the line between creep and hot guy is more about social awareness. The socially inept who guy can't read the other person is going to come off as creepy because he's not following social norms. Not following the social norms makes someone unpredictable and a little scary. The guys who can read people and adjust their behavior accordingly are always going to get more chicks.

I prefer an aggressive man, as long as he can tell the difference between a request to chase and a firm no. If he knows me already, it isn't hard to tell the difference between the two. A soft no is a request for reassurance, but only if it's with someone I'm in a relationship with. A guy in a bar who's being too agressive is going to get shot down. I'm not into that because the expectations aren't clear. It's awkward and a little frightening. If I know my guy has my best interests in mind, he can get away with grabbing me and saying, not asking, what he plans to do.

I almost always respond positively to his advances. I think that makes him willing to aggressively put himself out there. Even if I don't drop everything and run toward the bedroom, I respond with eye contact, touch and a promise for what will happen later. I keep those promises. This way, he knows I see and appreciate his effort and interest in me. I initiate too, but not so much that I offend him. [/quote]

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