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[quote=Anonymous]I'm feeling so stressed out right now. Moving cross country is overwhelmingly hard and expensive. It hasn't even happened yet and I'm already having a mini-breakdown.

I'm not expecting a ring, although that would be nice. I'm really not expecting anything - I think of it as if we are taking the next step in our relationship, but in a totally different city.   Im open to the possibility that it might not even work out, that I might even hate it there, that it will suck for the first few months. Yet, I still want to do it in spite of all that. 
I told my family over the holidays and got a little tearful breaking the news.  Both of our families want us to get married, but we both agree that we want to live together first, test the waters. I guess it does seem a lot to give up, but there's also a lot to gain. I've been complacent, and a little bored where I am. Maybe this is the change I need.
But at the same time, I'm really afraid. Not of moving in with him or going the next step in our relationship, but scared for me. At the end of the day, what matters most is  not if we end up getting married, it's whether I'll be happy with my decision.

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