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[quote=Anonymous]In my eyes, 14 months is not very long. But if it is enough time for you to know that this is the right step for you, then go for it, but keep a Plan B in your pocket. I second what others have posted to make sure there are other factors in you moving besides doing it just for him. If your thinking is "I'm going to move to DC and am so excited to live in a new city, meet new friends, find a better job, and get to see my bf" then go for it. But if you are looking at the situation more as "I'm going to move to DC for my bf and I will figure out my career, finding friends, and learning whether I even like living on east coast later on" then I think you are probably in for a world of hurt. He is moving for his job, that is his motivating factor. You are moving for him, and putting your job second (or later). That's cool and all, but on some level he is your #1 and you are at least #2 to his work.[/quote]
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