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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] And I keep running into pretentious hipsters or sex-driven alphas, or just awkward guys. And I'm starting to wonder, my list is really not so complicated, is it me? Is it life? Or is it a matter of time. Because I am definitely ready for good. I wasted way too long of my life with bad. [/quote]

[b]I guess it depends on the nature of the awkwardness, but of the guys you list, the awkward ones seem like your best shot.[/b] And, for what it's worth, I think there are plenty of guys who act like hipsters and alpha assholes because that's what they think they need to do to get women's attention -- because they see women going out with those kinds of guys (and/or those kinds of guys are the ones loudly bragging about their success with women.) Distinguishing between the faux alpha/hipsters and the real ones, however, is probably easier said than done. [/quote]

OP here, I'm no Ms. Cool, and I like some awkwardness, but I'm talking the talk super loud, interrupt someone and talk about something completely unrelated type of awkward. And I do feel like a complete asshole for even feeling this way, but it's not attractive to me. And to be fair, I shouldn't be judgmental of hipsters or alphas :) But they're not attractive to me either. [/quote]

Look OP, you've got baggage, OK?  What makes you think that's so attractive to all these guys you turn your nose up at for not meeting your standards?  You say you want love, but do you even know what it means to love someone?[/quote]

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